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Understanding the mechanisms of communication with the Process Communication Model®
- The basic rules of interpersonal communication: Exchange and feedback.
- The pillars of Process Com®: Tell apart form and content, types of personalities.
- The importance of verbal and non-verbal in message expression and comprehension.
- Different modes of perception: Emotion, thought, action.
- The six types of perception defined by Taibi Kahler.
- The six personality types: Their characteristics, strengths, and differences.
- The personality structure and its consequences for the preferred communication method.
- Identifying your profile and how it works by studying your Personality Inventory.
Role-playing
Practicing defining and using the language of different modes of perception.
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Knowing and practicing different communication channels
- Understanding parts of personalities and their role in communication: Words, tone, gestures, posture, expressions.
- Learning to mobilize different parts of your personality to adapt to the person you're speaking to.
- Understanding the 5 communication channels: Interrupting, encouraging, informative/interrogative, directive, playful/emotional.
- Recognizing and using your preferred communication channel.
- Practicing using the other communication channels to be understood by all.
Role-playing
Experimenting with different communication channels.
Practicing using all of your communication skills.
Studying videos.
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Adapting your communication to the person you're speaking to in order to be more effective
- Knowing the interaction styles and preferences of each personality type.
- Learning the preferred environments (work and interaction dynamics) of each personality type.
- Recognizing the mode of communication preferred by the person you're talking to through using verbal and non-verbal messages.
- Choosing the right communication channel for the other person's profile to communicate effectively.
- Recognizing psychological needs (sources of motivation).
- Identifying the other person’s needs to enable inspiring exchanges by offering appropriate signs of recognition.
Role-playing
Knowing all the indicators for identifying the mode of communication preferred by the person you're talking to.
Detecting the channel that best matches the situation and other person.
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Detecting and escaping miscommunication in a stressful situation
- Understanding miscommunication and the distress sequence for each personality type.
- Deciphering the other person’s "drivers” through “masks” and exchanges.
- Learning to respond positively in order to deescalate distress sequences.
- Analyzing how relationships may be altered in a 2nd-degree distress sequence.
- Providing a suitable response to escape from failure mechanisms.
- Understanding resistance to overcome it and inspire new motivations.
Role-playing
Detecting when distress sets in.
Practicing positively promoting your psychological needs and those of the other person to avoid increasing stress and conflicts.
Studying videos.